The phrase “kill your babies” is thrown around quite a bit in every assembly-line editing and film making book I’ve read. It applies to those bits of footage that you absolutely love but just don’t have any damn use for. I’d like to think that I’ve successfully applied this theory to my website, but I’m sure at least a few people aren’t happy with the change.

The simple facts are that even though I’m paying a fee every 3 months or so to keep this site running, I haven’t really looked at or interacted with it since I started working out my trip to Cali. I’m not exaggerating when I say I just might have looked at this site a grand total of five times since leaving the muggy, funky, wrong-place-for-me South.

On a few occasions I’ve seen unhappy forum members write me comments not unlike a 6 year old who has been neglected for an extended period of time by a drunk father. I tried to promote interactivity with my life and the breakdown of boundaries between myself and the people who watch my videos.

Man I fucking failed. Hard.

But rather than bringing back forums which will, frankly, be more of a headache to myself and the kindly folks who agreed to help me with moderating them, the only forum-like crap I’m going to allow [for now, at least] will be relegated to the comments section. See what I did there? I said “relegated”. Someday I hope to look up that word and find I’ve used it properly all these years. Most likely it will turn out quite the opposite.





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79 Responses to “An Explanation”

  1. Laggy, I dunno.. I’ll ask him if I see him tonight… what is your e-mail?

  2. i only did those crappy covers to post them on the forums >:( (sorry about that btw) BUT, even though i wasn’t posting much lately, i would always read it. i hated having the orange..folder..thingy next to the threads. anyway, i just found out that the whole site wasn’t taken down and that there’s still hot wild human interaction going on here, except for the hot and wild.. but yeah, if a new forum is set up, please let everyone know.. i miss people :{

    AND THE CHAT IS NOT DEAD. it’s just moved to Quakenet (irc.quakenet.org – #boh3m3). luggy and stefff are molesting each other right now and all you boh3m3chatless people are missing it >_

  3. Luggage, I just gave it in that same posting, but here it is again: nicholasjobe@gmail.com

  4. Right yeah saw it after I posted… DAMN YOU NO BEING ABLE TO TAKE BACK POSTS AND STUFF!! I’ll talk to him tonight and see if he has the right one. -Luggy

  5. I see how it is, Laggy. I have to be able to eat out an apple, be uber sexyfied and live in California for you to pay attention to me. :/

    FINE! *runs away*

  6. how exactly do u use quakenet??? =(

  7. pia, you download a client to access IRC with (I recommend mIRC, which I will link for you) and then you start pushing buttons till things happen D:. Basically, if you follow the instructions you will be all good…once there and in #boh3m3 we can instruct you on how to register with Q and all that fun stuff.

    mIRC: http://www.mirc.com/

  8. I missed a few steps pia, if you really want to know how to get there, pm me in msn

    lylth@hotmail.com

  9. i have trillian… can i access it from there?

  10. pee.uhh@gmail.com

    come stalk me luggy.

  11. You can totally access that from trillian.. I have to install the new version so I may be a while.. if you add me with the addy I gave, you’ll get me :) -Luggy

  12. Stef! You know I luvz u muchos!

  13. STEFS MINE BACK OFF!!!!!!!!!!!1

  14. oh, lug–my trillian isn’t working right now. it’s tempermental and often times likes to kick me out for periods on end and then just spontaneously at one moment decides to work again. i will add u once i get it working =p

  15. RAWRR!!

  16. heh. I left the forums a while ago. But I’m still alive. And kickin’!

  17. i miss so many people…fabby, laggy, luggage, pia, mordie, ani, fallen.. to name a few… and i can’t do the irc thingy ma bobber… :(…

  18. Wow… I’m getting all nostalgic.

    You know Fallen Angel and Jess are still together? Yah. Engaged. Trans-Atlantic romance sparked by far too much time spent in the chat.

    *sigh* I miss you all, my wee ghosties.

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